Got a little crush on that wild girl you spotted at last night’s party? With rave girls, those tiny crushes can turn into just about anything—from being ghosted to life-changing love stories and everything in between.
If you’re new to the world of rave girls, don’t worry; you’ll get the hang of it with time. But let’s cover some basics right now.
1. Respect Her Freedom
Raving isn’t just about flashy outfits and wild dancing. It’s about embracing freedom—freedom of choice, expression, and spirit. Trying to control a rave girl? Big mistake. If you’re on board, really dive in. Get wild, get lost, and enjoy the ride. If you’re more into cozy nights by the fireplace, maybe look for romance elsewhere.
2. Get to Know the Crew
Sure, having a crush or falling in love is cool, but her group of friends is like her family. They have shared memories and similar tastes in life, music, and style. So, seek out these connections—falling out with the crew probably means you’re falling out of her life as well.
3. Love Those Outfits
For her, festival outfits are sacred. She’ll spend hours (and dollars) on finding the perfect gear. First, give her space to enjoy this. Second, never make rude comments about her choices. Those outfits could be the reason you go down in an epic fashion disaster.
4. Save Your Jealousy
Yes, rave girls are hot, and other guys will notice. Keep your cool, though. Making a scene or trying to restrict her social life will fast-track you to the exit.
5. Gear Up for the Parties
Partying is likely a significant part of her life. You can join in and create wild memories, or stay home and watch Friends reruns as she makes memories with others. Rave events usually include warm-ups, the main party, afterparties, and possibly more. Prepare yourself.
6. Embrace a Little Cosplay
She’s got an alternative streak—and that’s probably why you’re drawn to her. Get ready to explore new worlds and identities with her. Most ravers are into cosplay, so expect some costume fun along the way.
7. Update Your Playlist
Rethink the music you’ve been listening to. Her musical tastes are diverse and intense, and she’ll want to share this passion. Be genuine about it, or you’ll be in trouble (see #9 for more on that).
8. Love Her Weirdness
Yep, your rave girl will be weird, and by “sometimes,” we mean “often.” She’ll dive into unusual books, music, movies, and more. Embrace it, because who needs another plain pop fan?
9. Be Authentic
Rave girls can spot fakeness from miles away. Be honest and real—it’ll get you much further than pretense ever could.
Feeling a bit more poised for your rave love adventure? Stay tuned to learn more about rave culture and dive right in!
