Got a little crush on that rave girl you saw at last night’s party? Well, here’s the thing about rave girls: those little crushes can turn into just about anything—from getting ghosted to finding life-changing love.
If you’re new to the rave world, you’ll pick up most things as you go. But let’s break down some of the essentials right away.
1. **Respect Her Freedom**
Raving isn’t just about crazy outfits and wild dancing. It’s all about freedom of choice, expression, and spirit. You can’t tie down a girl like this, and trying to will only backfire. If you’re going to be involved, dive in completely. Embrace the wild, adventurous spirit with her. If you’re hoping for a more traditional scene, like cozying up by the fireplace with yesterday’s news, maybe consider looking elsewhere for romance.
2. **Get to Know Her Crew**
Crushes and relationships are great, but her circle of rave buddies is like family. They share some of the best memories, a love for music, and a unique outlook on life. You’ll need to fit in with her crew, or you might find yourself out of the picture pretty quickly.
3. **Appreciate Her Outfits**
To rave girls, festival outfits are nearly sacred. She’ll spend a lot of time and money on finding the perfect gear, and she loves every second of it. Give her the space to enjoy this process. Sometimes, browsing rave gear online might take priority over talking to you. And remember, never make rude comments about her outfits. Seriously, she won’t appreciate that.
4. **Keep Jealousy in Check**
Sure, rave girls are super attractive, and other guys might flirt with her. Stay cool about it—that’s the key. If you start making a scene or trying to control her social life, you’re just heading for disaster.
5. **Be Ready for Parties and Afterparties**
Partying is a big part of her life. You’ve got two choices: join in and create some wild memories, or sit it out at home. Keep in mind, with rave parties, there are warm-ups, the main events, afterparties, and maybe even more partying ahead. If you’re not up for it, it might not be the right fit for you.
6. **Embrace a Bit of Cosplay**
She’s unique, and that’s part of the appeal, right? Be open to experiencing other worlds and seeing her transform with different looks and characters. Not all cosplayers are involved in rave culture, but most ravers enjoy a bit of cosplay.
7. **Update Your Playlist**
Consider revisiting what’s on your music playlist. Her music taste is usually rich, a bit out there, and definitely passionate. You’ll need to vibe with it if you want your relationship to thrive. But don’t fake it!
8. **Love the Weirdness**
Rave girls can be a bit weird, and by “a bit,” I mean a lot. Whether it’s books, music, or movies, embrace her quirky, unconventional side. Who needs more mainstream when you can have something truly unique?
9. **Never Fake It!**
Being real is two-sided in the world of rave. They have a knack for spotting fake people and will have no problem moving on. Be honest and sincere because they value straightforwardness over anything else.
Feeling more ready for your potential rave romance? Stay tuned to keep learning about rave culture and become part of it!
