Have a little crush on that free-spirited girl you noticed at the party last night? When it comes to rave girls, those small crushes can quickly turn into anything—from getting ghosted to starting a life-changing love story and everything in between.
If you’re new to the rave scene, here’s what you might need to know. You’ll learn most things through experience, but let me summarize a few key points for you right off the bat.
1. **Respect Her Freedom**
Rave culture is about more than just wild outfits and funky dancing; it’s deeply rooted in freedom of choice, expression, and spirit. You can’t hold this kind of girl back, and it wouldn’t be smart to try. So, if you’re ready to dive in, do it wholeheartedly. Get wild, get lost, and be free with her. If you’re expecting a quiet life by the fireplace, you might want to search for someone else.
2. **Get to Know the Crew**
Sure, love is great, but for a rave girl, her group of fellow party enthusiasts is like family. They share amazing memories, a love for music, and a certain lifestyle. In short, make an effort to hang out with her crew, or you might find yourself left out.
3. **Appreciate Her Outfits**
Festival outfits mean a lot to rave girls; they’re practically a religion. She’ll spend hours and dollars picking out the perfect gear, enjoying every moment. Here’s what you need to do: let her have her time enjoying the search. Sometimes, browsing through catalogs might be more important than chatting with you, and that’s okay. Also, never make rude or disrespectful comments about her clothes. Trust me, it won’t end well.
4. **Save the Jealousy**
We get it—rave girls are incredibly attractive, and other guys might make a move. But coolness is key. Acting jealous or trying to control her social life is a fast track to losing her.
5. **Brace Yourself for Endless Parties**
Partying is probably a big deal for her, so you have two choices. Join in and make some awesome memories together, or stay home while she does the same with someone else. Beyond just attending the rave, get ready for the pre-parties, the party itself, and the after-parties. Not feeling ready? Better get ready.
6. **Embrace a Little Cosplay**
She’s unique, which is likely what draws you to her. Be prepared to enter new worlds and see her transform into different characters. Maybe not every cosplayer is a raver, but most ravers love to cosplay.
7. **Update Your Playlist**
It’s time to rethink your music choices. Her taste in music is eclectic and passionate, and she’ll likely want to share it with you. Embrace it for the sake of your relationship, and whatever you do, don’t pretend to enjoy what you don’t. Authenticity is crucial.
8. **Learn to Love Quirkiness**
Yes, she’ll be quirky—more often than not. Whether it’s the books she reads, the music she listens to, or the way she sees the world, it’ll often be unconventional. Embrace this quirkiness because, honestly, who needs someone predictable?
9. **Never Pretend**
Rave girls are impressively insightful. They can easily spot dishonesty, pretentiousness, and insincere people. So, be real with her, even if it means sharing harsh truths. Authenticity and straightforwardness will always be valued over pretense.
Feeling a bit more ready for your exciting rave romance? Keep exploring rave culture to dive deeper into it!
