Crushing on that free-spirited person you met at the party last night? With rave girls, a small crush can quickly transform into anything—from getting ghosted to embarking on a life-changing romance.
If you’re new to the world of rave girls, there’s some key stuff you’ll want to know. Most of it you’ll pick up along the way, but let’s cover a few essentials right now.
1. RESPECT HER FREEDOM
Rave culture is about more than eye-catching outfits and wild dancing. It centers around freedom—freedom of choice, expression, and spirit. Trying to confine a rave girl is a mistake, so if you’re in, be all in. Embrace the wildness and enjoy the journey with her. If you’re expecting a quiet night at home while she knits, you might need to find someone else who’s more your style.
2. GET TO KNOW THE CREW
Romantic relationships are great, but for a rave girl, her crew is like family. They share memories, tastes, and experiences. If you want to stick around, make an effort to get to know her friends, because they hold a special place in her life.
3. CHERISH THOSE OUTFITS
Festival attire is more than just clothing—it’s a passion. She’ll invest time and money to find the perfect look. Respect her process. Sometimes, browsing for outfits might take priority over chatting with you, and that’s perfectly fine. And here’s a tip: never make fun of her choices. She’s proud of her style.
4. SAVE YOUR JEALOUSY FOR SOMEONE ELSE
You know rave girls are incredibly attractive, and others might notice too. Stay cool and confident. Acting possessive or trying to control her won’t help your relationship. Instead, give her the space and trust she deserves.
5. GET READY FOR THE PARTIES… AND THE AFTERPARTIES
Partying is likely a huge part of her world, and you’ve got two choices. Join in and make some wild memories together, or sit out and risk missing out while she makes those memories with someone else. Be prepared for not just the party, but also the afterparty and whatever else comes after.
6. A LITTLE COSPLAY NEVER HURT ANYONE
She’s alternative, and that’s part of her charm. Embrace the fact that she might dive into different characters and worlds. Not all cosplayers are ravers, but many ravers love cosplay.
7. UPDATE YOUR PLAYLIST
Her taste in music is diverse and possibly a bit eccentric. She’ll likely introduce you to her favorites. Be open to experiencing new sounds, and don’t pretend to like her music if you don’t genuinely enjoy it.
8. LEARN TO LOVE A BIT OF WEIRDNESS
A rave girl will often be quirky, which means she might have unusual tastes in books, movies, and everything else. Learn to appreciate and cherish this aspect—it’s part of what makes her unique.
9. DON’T EVER TRY TO FAKE IT!
Rave girls value authenticity and can easily spot dishonesty. Be yourself—she’ll respect honest truths more than anything false.
Feeling more prepared for a potential rave romance? Keep learning and stay tuned for more about rave culture!
