Got a little crush on someone you saw at the party last night? If she’s into raves, you should know that these little crushes can turn into just about anything—from getting ghosted to finding your soul mate.
If you’re new to the rave scene, there’s a lot to learn, and you’ll pick up most of it as you go. But here are some pointers to get you started.
1. **Respect Her Freedom**
Rave culture isn’t just wild outfits and crazy dancing. It’s all about freedom—freedom of choice, freedom of expression, and freedom of spirit. You can’t hold back a rave girl, and it would be unwise to try. So if you’re going to be with her, dive all in. Embrace the wild side, get lost with her, and enjoy the freedom. If you’re looking for someone who’ll just sit by the fire and knit while you read the newspaper, you might want to look elsewhere.
2. **Get to Know Her Crew**
Sure, crushes and love stories are great, but in her world, her crew is like family. They share amazing memories, and often have similar tastes in music, life, and the finer things. It’s important to fit in with her friends, otherwise, you might end up on the sidelines.
3. **Appreciate Her Outfits**
Rave outfits are a big deal for her, almost like a form of religion. She’ll spend hours picking the perfect gear and loves the process. It’s important to give her space for this. Sometimes, scrolling through outfit catalogs will take priority over chatting with you, and that’s cool. More importantly, never make negative comments about her outfits. She takes them seriously, and your support means a lot.
4. **Keep Jealousy in Check**
Yes, rave girls can be super attractive, and yes, other guys will notice. But you need to stay chill. Acting possessive or trying to control her social life? That’s a surefire way to push her away.
5. **Prepare for Non-Stop Partying**
Partying is probably a big part of her life. You’ve got two choices: join in and make memories with her, or stay home and let her have fun with others. Rave events include warm-ups, main parties, afterparties, and everything in between, so be ready for the ride.
6. **A Little Cosplay Never Hurt Anyone**
She’s different, and that’s likely why you’re drawn to her. She’s into trying new roles and experiences, and you should be open to this alternative lifestyle too.
7. **Update Your Playlist**
Be ready to expand your music taste. Her playlists might be a bit out there, but she’ll want to share what she loves with you. It’s important to genuinely enjoy it, too.
8. **Embrace the Weirdness**
Rave girls can be quirky, and that’s part of their charm. Whether it’s the books they read, the music they listen to, or the things they say and do—appreciate it. After all, who needs something conventional?
9. **Be Genuine**
Honesty is key. Rave girls can easily spot fakeness and won’t hesitate to move on if they detect it. Be real and straightforward—they prefer the truth over any façade.
Feeling ready for a rave romance? Stay tuned for more on understanding and embracing rave culture!
